What am I supposed to wear now?

I lost 190 pounds around 2-4 years ago. I say 2-4 because I began losing it over 5 years ago and lost 100 pounds in the first year…so it has felt like a lot longer of a weight loss time period as that large amount has been gone for nearly 4 years now…however it still took me time to lose the remaining.

I lost 190 pounds and had skin removal surgery on my stomach and arms and had a breast lift. I had this entirely new body and had to buy a new wardrobe (I know what a bummer)…BUT was now 18 years older than the last time I had a body like this. What was I supposed to wear now? Not only that but I’m completely single, free and building my new life. My weight in the last year has been fluctuating as I battle PCOS and heavy iron deficiency. I am figuring out this new body and life and what I even want to wear.

So I’m inviting you all along on my fashion-in-my-40’s journey! I LOVE wearing skirts and have since I was so young. I’m a dress and skirt girly. All summer I lived in lightweight skirts and either a t-shirt or button down.

Has anyone else not known how to even dress their body after weight loss or a baby? Am I the only one?